Thursday, October 25, 2007

On Marriage

Robert Boyle (1627-1691) advised the woman who wanted to be a good wife "to deliberate much upon a choice she can probably make but once, and not needlessly venture to embark herself on a sea so infamous for frequent shipwrecks, only because she is offered a fine ship to make the long voyage with."

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm not sure I entirely understand that comment. Is it saying, think carefully about getting married even if you're offered a fine ship (the husband? or a house? or comfort?) to make the long journey?

Lara said...

I think he's saying that having a good man (a "fine ship") is not a guarantee that marriage will be successful (avoid shipwreck) and so a woman should think long and hard about getting married, because it's a choice she'll probably only get to make once.